Letting Go to Glow – Surrendering Control

In this episode of Mind Beauty Spirit, we dive deep into the liberating power of letting go to glow and how surrendering control can open the door to greater creativity, adaptability, and joy in your life and career. 🌟

As beauty professionals, we’ve been conditioned to chase perfection, but this relentless pursuit can stifle growth and creativity. We explore the dangers of perfectionism, how it can fuel imposter syndrome, and offer actionable insights on how to embrace imperfection as part of your journey.

Plus, listen for a powerful guided meditation at minute 15:45, designed to help you release control, reconnect with your authentic self, and find the flow that enhances both your business and personal life.

If you’re ready to embrace the messy, beautiful journey of your career, this episode is for you! 🌱✨

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Chapters

• 0:00 Introduction
• 1:41 Opening Affirmation
• 2:59 The Struggle with Perfectionism
• 5:11 Embracing Imperfection
• 6:24 The Challenge of Imposter Syndrome
• 7:39 Reframing Your Journey
• 10:26 The Shift from Hustle to Flow
• 12:02 The Power of Play and Creativity
• 13:34 Patience & Trusting the Process
• 15:25 Guided Meditation: Embracing Surrender and Flow
• 26:46 Actionable Takeaway for the Week
• 29:14 Closing Thoughts
• 31:07 OxyVERVE Commercial Break

Transcript

Welcome back to Mind Beauty Spirit!
Get ready, because we are diving deep—like a cannonball into the deep end—into the essence of what it truly means to craft a career that shines with authenticity, purpose, and alignment with your truest self. This season, we’re embarking on a transformative journey together, exploring topics that empower you to embrace your unique magic as you navigate the industry with confidence, grace, and a whole lot of joy.

Today, we’re tackling a theme that strikes a chord with so many: Letting Go to Glow – Surrendering Control. This isn't just a trendy catchphrase. It's a heartfelt invitation to explore the liberating power of surrender in our careers. By allowing ourselves to step back, breathe, and trust the process, we unlock the door to greater creativity, adaptability, and ultimately, the joy that fuels our passion for this beautiful work we’re doing.

And if you’ve read my book, Powerful Women Lose Control: The Single Woman’s Guide to Creating an Extraordinary Life, you'll remember the importance of releasing our grip on control to fully embrace our authentic selves. It’s a journey that resonates deeply with today’s theme and serves as a reminder that surrendering isn’t about giving up; it’s about opening ourselves to new possibilities.

But before we plunge into this enlightening conversation, let’s take a moment to ground ourselves with an empowering affirmation that will set the perfect tone for our discussion:

Opening Affirmation:

📍 “I let go and trust in the flow of my business journey.”

Take a deep breath in, and as you do, visualize that energy flowing into you. As you repeat this affirmation, let it resonate deeply within you. Imagine the weight of expectations gently lifting off your shoulders, creating space for a renewed sense of lightness and openness. Allow this affirmation to wash over you like a refreshing wave, reminding you that surrendering control is not a sign of weakness—it’s a powerful leap toward embracing your true potential.

As we journey together today, through this episode, remember: every insight, every shared experience, and every moment of reflection brings you closer to living a life that truly glows from the inside out. So, let’s light this up and get started!

The World of Perfectionism

We’re going to dive deep into the world of perfectionism. As beauty professionals, we’re trained to deliver, not just results, but flawless results. Whether it's our techniques, aesthetics, or personal branding, we’ve been conditioned to chase an ideal that always feels a little bit out of reach.

This relentless pursuit can be a double-edged sword. Yes, it drives us to excel and deliver exceptional work, but it can also stifle our growth and adaptability. Perfectionism is insidious. It sneaks into our thoughts, weaving a narrative that suggests there’s only one path to success. This mindset creates a rigid framework that restricts our creativity and exploration.

We can easily become trapped in a cycle where the fear of making mistakes leads us to avoid risks that could spark creativity and innovation. When we become overly focused on achieving a specific, sometimes unattainable, ideal, we inadvertently close ourselves off to new ideas and possibilities. This can create a stifling atmosphere where mistakes feel catastrophic rather than the invaluable learning opportunities they really are.

Think back to the last time you hesitated to try something new in your work. Maybe you had an idea for a fresh technique or wanted to experiment with a new product, but the fear of not achieving perfection held you back. This fear can act as a powerful barrier, preventing us from stepping outside our comfort zones and exploring the limitless possibilities that lie just beyond our self-imposed limits.

But here’s the truth: perfectionism severely limits our growth. It can keep us from discovering new creative outlets and stifle the excitement that comes from venturing into uncharted territories. By constantly striving for an impossible ideal, we can find ourselves caught in a cycle of anxiety, self-doubt, and frustration. Instead of celebrating our progress and the unique journey we're on, we focus solely on what we perceive as our shortcomings.

To thrive in our careers and cultivate a fulfilling professional life, we need to recognize and challenge this mindset. It’s crucial to understand that our worth is not determined by our ability to present a polished image or deliver a flawless service. In fact, it’s our authenticity, our quirks, and our willingness to embrace imperfection that resonate most profoundly with our clients. They crave genuine connection with real people, not just the shiny, flawless facades that perfectionism demands.

So together, let’s flip the script. Instead of allowing perfectionism to dictate our path, let’s celebrate our individuality and the beauty that comes from our unique experiences. By doing this, we create a vibrant space for growth, innovation, and true connection.

Remember, it’s not about being perfect. It’s about being real, genuine, authentic, and unapologetically YOU. Let’s embrace the journey, imperfections and all, and watch as our creativity shines through in ways we never imagined possible.

The Challenge of Imposter Syndrome

Now, woven into this conversation about perfectionism is the ever-present challenge of imposter syndrome. It’s that sneaky little voice that many of us in the industry know all too well, whispering feelings of inadequacy and self-doubt, making us question our skills and accomplishments, despite all evidence to the contrary. This internal critic has a way of convincing us that we're not quite enough and that we’re somehow faking it until we make it.

Imposter syndrome can feel particularly magnified when we’re striving for perfection. The fear of being found out as a fraud can lead us to cling even tighter to control, driving us to maintain a flawless exterior at all costs. We think, If I don’t keep up this perfect facade, everyone’s going to see that I’m not as capable as they believe.

But here’s the empowering truth: Every professional, regardless of their level of success, has faced moments of self-doubt. You are absolutely not alone in this struggle, my friend. Instead of allowing imposter syndrome to dictate our worth, we can combat it with a powerful shift in perspective.

Let’s begin by reframing our journeys as personal evolutions, rather than direct comparisons to others. Each of us is on a unique path, filled with distinct experiences that contribute to our growth and success. Embracing that means recognizing that your journey is yours alone, complete with its ups and downs, its triumphs and lessons learned.

Celebrate your accomplishments, no matter how small. Did you nail a new technique with a client? Did you successfully market your latest service? Every win, no matter the size, is a stepping stone on your unique path.

Consider keeping a success journal to regularly document these wins. This practice not only allows you to visualize your progress but also reinforces your capabilities and talents. When self-doubt creeps in—and trust me, it will, it does for all of us—you can turn to this journal as a source of empowerment, a reminder of your growth and the immense value you bring to your work and your clients.

Additionally, let’s talk about the importance of connection. Another powerful strategy to overcome imposter syndrome is to share your feelings with your peers. Often, simply articulating our fears and insecurities can lessen their power. You might be surprised to find that many of your colleagues feel the same way. By opening up about our struggles, we can build a supportive network that uplifts and encourages each other to embrace authenticity and vulnerability.

Imagine creating a safe space where you can express your concerns without the fear of judgment—where your friends validate your feelings and remind you of your worth. This kind of support system not only fosters camaraderie but also helps dismantle the isolating grip of imposter syndrome. Together, let’s lift each other up, celebrate each other’s wins, and remind one another that it’s perfectly okay to be imperfect.

The Shift from Hustle to Flow

So, how do we transition from a hustle mentality, driven by perfectionism and the heavyweight of imposter syndrome, to a more fluid and dynamic state of flow? It begins with recognizing that true growth often arises from embracing the delightful messiness of creativity.

Instead of fixating on achieving perfection, we can choose to focus on progress—allowing ourselves to embrace the beautiful reality that imperfection is an integral part of the journey. This shift in perspective not only liberates us but also opens the door to a more joyful and fulfilling career.

One of the most liberating moments in my career came when I discovered the power of viewing mistakes as stepping stones rather than setbacks. I recall a time when I was preparing for a significant career event. Focused on delivering my best work, I became so fixated on every single detail that I stressed myself out to the point where I overlooked some key aspects of my prep. Instead of panicking when things didn’t go as planned, I took a deep breath and openly acknowledged my feelings. To my surprise, the honesty allowed me to connect with others on a deeper level. They appreciated my vulnerability and recognized that everyone has their struggles.

This experience taught me a profound lesson: showing up authentically—imperfections and all—can truly bring deeper connections with our clients and colleagues.

Incorporating Play and Patience

When we approach our work with a sense of playfulness and curiosity, we unlock the potential for a world of new experiences and possibilities. Think about it: when was the last time you allowed yourself to experiment without the relentless pressure of perfection looming over you? I encourage you to set aside some intentional time for unstructured creativity. Explore new techniques, play with different products, or engage playfully with your social media content. The goal is to release any expectations and simply have fun.

By letting go of rigid outcomes, you might discover new insights about your practice and techniques that resonate with your authentic self, reigniting your passion in ways you never imagined.

Incorporating play into your professional life doesn’t have to be complicated. Consider dedicating a creative hour every week where you focus on whatever inspires you in the moment. Maybe it’s experimenting with a fresh look or brainstorming engaging ideas for client interactions. Allow yourself the freedom to explore without imposing any boundaries on yourself. You may find that you stumble upon a new approach or technique that really enriches your practice and enhances the overall atmosphere for your clients.

Embrace the Flow

As we wrap up, I want to leave you with this: embrace the flow. Celebrate the beauty in your journey, knowing that every twist, turn, and moment of uncertainty is an opportunity for growth and discovery. By shifting from a hustle mentality to a flow state, we create an environment where creativity thrives and our authentic selves shine brightly.

Remember, it’s not about the destination—it’s about enjoying the ride and all the magic that unfolds along the way. So, let go of the need to control every detail of your life, and instead, dance with the rhythm of your creativity. When we trust the journey and allow ourselves to flow, we open up to extraordinary possibilities in every area of life.

Takeaway for the Week:
Practice flexibility in one area of your work. Choose something you usually control tightly and approach it with openness. Whether it’s your client appointments, marketing, or daily routine, give yourself permission to experiment and adapt. Flexibility fosters creativity and reinforces your ability to handle change with grace.

Bonus Meditation
The meditation we practiced today is available as a standalone resource on the Mind Beauty Spirit YouTube channel. You can revisit this whenever you need a moment of calm and reconnection.

Wrap-Up
Thank you for joining me today on this journey. This isn’t just a podcast; it’s a community. Together, we can navigate the industry with authenticity and trust in the process.

Next episode, we’ll dive into the theme of Spirit in Bloom—Finding Purpose Beyond Profit, where we’ll explore how to define a deeper purpose in business and set purpose-driven intentions.

Until then, keep shining, keep trusting your inner voice, and remember—the world needs more of your magic!